Reblogged from seattlescoffee
It is supposed to make you fucking happy! Everyone who is “in love” and miserable is only that way because of something inside them. The ones who are in love and miserable are not really in love at all. They’re seeking happiness from outside rather than from within. Happiness only comes from within. True happiness is something you need to reach inside yourself before you can even begin to feel it from others. Others cannot be your sole source of happiness. They can contribute to it, yes, but cannot be your rock. You need to learn to be happy within yourself and to love yourself before you can fucking love anybody else! Thats why people are miserable and “in love”. Its not the love that makes them sad, its the fact that they’re not getting the happiness they expect from someone else. Happiness isn’t something you can just achieve through someone else. It takes work to be happy. It takes effort to find and acknowledge the greatness inside of you. Only after doing that can you be fucking happy! So don’t fucking tell me that love is pain or any bullshit like that. Love is a prosperous and beautiful feeling. Its when you taint love by expecting it to bring you the happiness you can only find within yourself does it become painful.
(Source: stayedgold)
